-less or -fulness?

"He asked me to walk him out, he said wanna walk 2 big rounds. Well~ he got very exhausted and we stopped after one round. Still good~ It's so unbelievable. 9 months ago... even 6 months ago.....even 4 months ago before discharged home, the aunties the doctor and even my friends also asked me if I should go back to KL, and I should seriously think about my "future". 9 full months, now, we are holding hands, walking side-by-side for at least 500m, we never did evening walk before, we also hardly hold hands tight while shopping.

How could people just easily give up?"

Giving up is easier than keep on going.
Just like, doing nothing is easier than doing something.
It's about whether you are intrinsically motivated and truly believe you can do it.
Other than praying and waiting, this is how we could do our parts to realize our so-called "miracle".
And, having a sense of gratitude after striving for the best.
This is what I learned from this special friend.

Life could be nothing, until you create a meaning into it.

热爱工作vs工作狂

热爱工作和工作狂的区别只在于一个人是否在工作的过程中得到快乐。

如果只有麻木繁忙的感觉，或者只能在成就上得到满足感而过程却是痛苦的，或者一直埋怨这个投诉那个，那么就不算是热爱工作了。我们上课学习用了几乎二十年，但是我们却得花至少四十年在工作上。如果做得不开心，每天只会发放负能量的话，那么会很难让自己快乐起来。

在别人眼里，热爱工作和工作狂也许是等号。毕竟人通常只看事情的表面来评断整个事情。所以自己是否是前者还是后者只有自己知道。

若真的无法找到自己喜爱的工作，倒不如让自己爱上工作吧。有时候自我催眠和自我安慰对自己与家人反而是件好事。

Pink

我喜欢Pink，不是粉红色的Pink。是一名美国女歌手。
歌词里有粗话，我不管，只要歌曲好听有意思。还有合我的快感口味 -- 够“起劲”。
最近爱死她这三首歌。一带上耳机，我多么想四周围的人和事物停下来跟我一起享受，一起摆动。就像歌舞剧的那种。对，这是我听自己喜欢的歌时出现的心理状态。有“入戏”的说法，那么这也可以是“入歌”的状态！