Learning 2: Problem solving

Before we could solve any problem, we must first assume our responsibilities for that problem.
The key is, self responsibility.

-from Scott Peck.

Learning 1: New definition of love

To love is to spend time with someone.
Spend time by paying attention and real listening, which actually require enormous efforts.
Genuine love is an act of will.
It is not about feeling of love. It is not something momentary. It is about spiritual growth.
You love someone just because you want to.

-from Scott Peck.

大姐有感而发

做了妈妈后觉得岁月真的不留人。将来再生第二个第三个，四个后健康很可能不如现在。而且这只不过是几年后的事。同时也觉得有了孩子时间过得很快。等孩子大了，自己变老了，这样就一生了。。。所以要珍惜现在拥有的。

行动，就是机会

外貌如何，没有选择。
可是，对于自己的行为，我们有绝对的选择权。
行为，既是行动。

不管是好的，或不好的改变，
只要有行动，就有机会。